When I first became a mom, I wasn’t someone who naturally asked for help. I thought I could handle everything on my own, juggling the endless responsibilities of motherhood, homemaking, and building my business. But as time went on, I learned something humbling: we can’t do it all, and we go further when we’re willing to ask for help.
As moms, we’re often balancing so many roles, from work to home management, and everything in between. But I’ve made it my new norm to reach out and lean on others, and it has been life-changing. These days, I ask my husband for support, my in-laws, and even other loved ones. Just this past Saturday, I drove an hour to my in-laws so I could have time to work in peace. That time away allowed me to focus and do the deep work that moves me forward instead of trying to multitask at home.
And let me tell you—after years of trying to do it all at once, I’m no longer a fan of multitasking. It often leaves us scattered, doing a bit of everything but finishing nothing.
Now, I prioritize being present with each task, even though, as moms, that isn’t always realistic. Instead, I do my best to focus on two or three big tasks each day. Sometimes that means focusing on work, while other days, it’s managing the household.
I've created a system that works for me:
I set specific days for larger household tasks like laundry or mopping, so I’m not constantly thinking about it.
Daily lighter tasks like meal prep, dishes, and sweeping have their own place, so I’m not overwhelmed.
Most importantly, I’ve made rest a non-negotiable part of my day. Every day, I make time to recharge because listening to my body helps me manage burnout. ( I will discuss this in another blog)
If you’re reading this, feeling like you’re constantly pulled in a million directions and unsure of where to start, know that you’re not alone—and you don’t have to do this alone.
You can learn more about these strategies inside the Nurturing the Mama Membership. We dive deep into setting realistic routines, asking for help, and building a support network that lifts you up. Because when you embrace support, you’re not just surviving—you’re building a life where you can truly thrive.
The first step to Embracing Support as a Mom Who Wears Many Hats is by asking for help.
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