Have you ever made a list of goals and felt the pull to rush toward achieving them? To see that end result as quickly as possible, as if life will finally begin once you get there?
Same. I’ve been there—more times than I can count. And if I’m honest, I still find myself slipping into that mindset sometimes.
But here’s one thing I’ve learned on this journey of motherhood, womanhood, and just life: we often focus so much on trying to get there that we miss the beauty of being here.
By here, I mean the present moment—the space we’re in right now. Think about it: at one point in time, you dreamed about being where you are today. You worked hard, prayed, and poured your heart into making it to this point. Yet, how often do we pause and appreciate it? Instead, we’re already chasing the next goal, the next milestone, the next version of ourselves we think will make everything fall into place.
But what if we chose to slow down and appreciate where we are right now?
This applies to so many areas of life. In motherhood, when we’re so focused on raising our children right that we forget to savor the simple moments with them. In marriage, when we’re striving for a stronger connection or a better relationship, but overlook the small gestures of love that are happening every day. In our careers, when we’re hustling for that promotion, that next step, and lose sight of the growth that’s happening right now.
We get so caught up in the there that we forget to cherish the here.
The truth is, you will get there. The goals, the dreams—they will come. But in the meantime, why not find joy in the journey?
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Trusting the process isn’t just about waiting; it’s about embracing the growth, the lessons, the beauty of where you are today. It’s about shifting your mindset from “I need to get there” to “I’m thankful for where I am, and I trust that what’s meant for me will come in time.”
This is especially true in motherhood, wifehood, womanhood, and the work we do. Whether you're navigating postpartum, balancing your wellness, or working toward personal and family goals, it’s not just about reaching the destination—it’s about who you’re becoming along the way.
So I ask you: Can you take a deep breath and trust the process? Can you find gratitude for the steps you’ve already taken and believe that what’s ahead will unfold in its own perfect timing?
If you’re struggling to find that balance or feel grounded in your own journey, I’m here to walk with you. Whether through the Nurturing The Mama Membership, where you’ll find a community of moms who get it, or through my 1:1 Coaching Nurture Package, where we can create a personalized plan for your wellness and growth—I want you to know that support is available. You don’t have to rush. You don’t have to go it alone.
Let’s embrace the here together, trusting that there will come in its time. goals. Use my Lessons From Motherhood and Beyond to grow.
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